Being successful is not easy! If it was, everyone would do it.
There are always going to be challenges along the way to achieving your goals, no matter what they are. But if you can make a plan that is easy to follow and you stick to it, you can have an unfair advantage when you come across these challenges.
Here are my TOP 9 Daily Practices that keep me motivated and inspired. (Now don’t get me wrong. These steps are very easy to follow, but some days it can be very, very challenging!)
There are many forms of meditation, and there is no right or wrong one to choose from. It’s more of a personal decision when choosing a style. Whether you do it for 3 minutes, 30 minutes or an hour, the idea is to do it. Meditation is also known to reduce stress, improve concentration and promote a healthier and happier lifestyle.
I like to do anywhere between 5 and 10 minutes a day.
Putting your goals in writing and having them up on your wall is such a powerful tool! You can have them up in your office, in your bedroom or even in your bathroom. Seeing your goals every day can keep you motivated, and help you stay focused on what you are actually trying to do.
In my office I have a white board with my goals written down, as well as a vision board with images that inspire me. The other little gem is re-writing my goals in my journal just before I head to bed.
3. Stop Complaining
I know complaining doesn’t get you anywhere, but sometimes we just can’t help it! After all, it’s human nature, right? Well, not for successful people! This was made even more clear to me after reading “The 10 X Rule” by Grant Cardone. It was in chapter 6, “Assume Control of Everything,” when he told the reader he was actually going to call that chapter “Don’t Be a Little Bitch!” I laughed out loud, but it was like having a mindfulness bell go off. All day that day, anytime I caught myself complaining in my head or out loud, all I would think of was chapter 6, or DBALB, just like a mindfulness bell. What a difference it made for me! I found myself laughing all day, not realising how much I actually complained about the small things.
We have all heard this a million times, but it’s only because it’s true. There are so many ways you can exercise, and everyone has their opinion on what is best. There is only one right way, and that’s the Nike way, “Just Do It.” Getting a coach is a great idea too. They can design a program to suit your goals, give you guidance on nutrition, keep you motivated and accountable. You can have a coach whom you can see face to face, or an online coach. When looking for a coach, I recommend that you interview them first. After all, you are hiring them to work for you!
5. Positive People
“You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with” – Jim Rohn
I heard once that if you were the smartest person in your street, it was time for you to move! It’s so true. This happened when I used to play golf. If I was put in a group of hackers who would take forever to get to the green, I found my game would get worse by the time I got to the 18th. But when I was in a group of golfers who were much better than me, my game would lift. The point of the story is that when you surround yourself with people who are at a higher level than you, or where you want to be in life, your game will lift.
Ways you can surround yourself with the right people:
- Seek friends who challenge you in a positive way
- Get rid of negative people in your life
- Join a mastermind group (people who share your interests)
- Attend network functions
- See number 6
6. Listen to Audio Books or Podcasts
Listening to audio books or podcasts can be a great way to get motivated or inspired. I love to listen to these when I’m driving or in the gym. It’s an opportunity for me to learn new things from people that I admire. I have been attending automobile university for nearly five years now, and I’m definitely going to enrol next year!
There are podcasts and audio books on many different topics, so whatever you are interested in, there will be something out there for you. Podcasts are great too because pretty much all of them are free. One of my favourites right now is EOFire with John Lee Dumas, which is a podcast for entrepreneurs with new guests every day. Ted Talks are another good choice, with a variety of topics. There are so many out there, just type in your interests when searching for podcasts and give it a go. If nothing comes up, guess what? You have just found a new niche!
7. Have a Mentor or Accountability Partner
Having someone you can talk to is so important. This should be someone other than friends and family, someone who is more experienced in the area you are interested in. It doesn’t matter how old you are, or how old your mentor is, if they have certain expertise and are willing to mentor you, then go for it!
No matter what happens in your day, find three things that you are truly grateful for. This is a great way to stop, slow down and reflect on what’s really going on, and you can do this anytime! It is also useful in those moments you feel like nothing is going your way. When you can still see what’s good in your life, it strengthens you and helps you through the bad. I like to do this before I go to bed, as it helps me end the day on a positive note.
9. Have a Why
Doing all these things that I have talked about to keep you motivated comes down to one question, “WHY?”
What is your purpose? Why do you get up in the morning? Why do you grind it day in and day out? Probably the most famous person asking this question at the moment is author Simon Sinek. He has written a book called “Start with Why,” and has a famous TED Talk with the same title.
Although I’m finishing my list off with Why, I just want you to remember start with Why. Your Why is what keeps you going through those trying times. If you want to do anything in life start with Why, because as Mark Twain once said, “The two most important days in your life is the day you were born and the day you knew why.”